Have you ever been unfriended in Facebook? Have you ever wondered why people unfriend other people in Facebook?
According to a recent study by NM Incite, here are the top reasons why people unfriend their “friends” in Facebook.
Top 10 Reasons People Unfriend in Facebook
- Offensive Comments
- Don’t know them well
- Trying to sell me something
- Depressing comments
- Lack of interaction
- Political comments
- Breakup / divorce
- Don’t like their friends
- Update profile too often
- They add too many people
In addition to this informative list of why people unfriend others you can see why people “friend” other people and why people use social media.
Let me know in the comments if you’ve unfriended anyone and why!
For instructions on how to do it, click How to Unfriend Someone in Facebook.

Source: NM Incite
Have you unfriended anyone in Facebook?
If so, why did you unfriend them?
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Twitter: ghua
says:
I usually unfriend people I dont know very well when they start spamming me with useless stuff.
Best friends
Siegfried recently posted..How to use Pingdom website analysis tool
Twitter: rtmixmktg
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I agree Siegfried. I’ve also been getting invited to a lot of “events” by someone I don’t know well. About time to cut him loose!
Tom Treanor recently posted..6 Unavoidable Tasks That Go With Business Blogging
Twitter: lisapatb
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I unfriend soemone once for always inviting me to games. I just found an app now for that so I don’t get anymore of those. I think many don’t like too frequent updates. The more friends you have the more you can usually update without a problem.
Political season is a whole other story Tom :)
Lisa recently posted..5 Reasons To Write An Ebook Based On Your Niche Blog
Twitter: rtmixmktg
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It seems that I get invited to games a lot less than I used to. I think the decline of Zynga has something to do with that! I guess people have moved on. Yes, political season was very, very trying…. Thanks for stopping by!
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16% of liberals are likely to unfriend and block, rather than engage in respectful discourse, than are conservatives.

Paul recently posted..Update: Top 6 Piers Morgan Beatdowns
Twitter: rtmixmktg
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Paul – that’s an interesting assertion. Was there a study or survey done on this?
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The Pew Center.
http://news.investors.com/politics-andrew-malcolm/031312-604124-pew-center-study-of-american-online-habits.htm
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Twitter: rtmixmktg
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Thanks Paul for coming back to share the link to the data by Pew Center! Very interesting info.
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Sure thing. I find it interesting as well. Perception versus reality…open-mindedness and tolerance versus censorship and bigotry etc.

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Twitter: cendrinemedia
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The only time I friend someone on Facebook is when I have gotten to interact with them on other channels (Twitter or Google+) for a while.
The only people I would unfriend are those who post frequent offensive content / comments or rents and those who barely ever interact with me.
Cendrine Marrouat recently posted..This week in social media (March 4-8, 2013)
Twitter: rtmixmktg
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Cendrine – that sounds like a really logical way to do it. I sometimes look at their other connections to see if they know people I do if I’m on the fence. Thanks for stopping by and sharing too!
Tom Treanor recently posted..4 Natural Urges to Suppress When Marketing Online
Twitter: RyanHanley_Com
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Tom,
I have never actually unfriended people. But I was real close before I found out you could turn off games. Facebook games are the most annoying thing on the Internet in my opinion.
Also in general I haven’t been spending as much time on Facebook. Everything as been Google+ lately…
Thanks
Hanley
Ryan Hanley recently posted..7 Basic Principles of Content Marketing and SEO that Actually Work
Twitter: rtmixmktg
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Ryan,
Great point – yes, you can turn off things like game notifications or pick what you get from certain people. Yes, some people are definitely choosing G+ over Facebook these days. It will be interesting to see how Google+ grows and changes.
Tom Treanor recently posted..How to Unfriend or Unfollow Someone in Facebook
Hi Tom,
Great list and info-graphic!
I have only ever unfriended a couple of people who were always negative, had nothing positive to contribute–especially if they posted these types of comments often! Now, what is the etiquette regarding re-posts? I have noticed some FB friends don’t put up any of their own material but rather, they just re-post others’ stuff. I only wonder because I have some colleagues in my field who were my students, who now have their own business (which is in competition with mine) and we often share each other’s posts (whether we are the authors or not). So far there hasn’t been an obvious problem, but I worry about those who don’t contribute and just recycle info. Your thoughts would be appreciated. Thanks!
Twitter: rtmixmktg
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Andrea – great question. There are a lot of content curators out there. People who find and share things that they find valuable or interesting. I don’t think that’s a problem. In some ways, people who only share their own posts can be seen as too self-promotional. It’s just my opinion, but I think a healthy mix of other’s content and your own is great. Some people don’t really create their own content so they’re left to curate or not share. Thanks for asking!
Tom Treanor recently posted..4 Natural Urges to Suppress When Marketing Online
I get tired of the people who play the games and invite me to play! Not interested. Happy to read other peoples content, and re-shares if I think it is interesting, but enough with the advertising or sponsored posts. If my friend enters a contest, fine…but the hijacking of my space for sponsored stuff drives me nuts….but then I guess, that really isn’t an unfriending issue, but a reason that I use FB less and less as the relevant content keeps going down!
Anita Mac recently posted..Monday Morning Series: Life is in session
Twitter: rtmixmktg
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I hear you about the games! The sponsored posts and suggested pages are another matter but I agree. That will likely get worse before it gets better… Thanks for stopping by!
Tom Treanor recently posted..4 Natural Urges to Suppress When Marketing Online
I hope you are right! I miss the FB of a while ago when it was a great tool to keep up with friends and family around the world! Put it on the stock exchange and they didn’t take long to change it for the worse!
Anita Mac recently posted..Monday Morning Series: Life is in session
I’m just getting tired of people posting pictures of their cats, or announcing that they’re doing their laundry. (Yes, I’ve had these.) Knowing some of these people offline, I believe they were avoided because of their oddness or lack of social skills and that they’re using FB for validation.
Twitter: rtmixmktg
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Hallie – too funny but true! Yes, it’s a platform that can amplify any type of personality and sometimes we suffer. Thanks for stopping by!
Tom Treanor recently posted..How to Unfriend or Unfollow Someone in Facebook
Twitter: momwithahook
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I don’t unfriend unless it is about coupons and stuff and even with that I sometimes do so passively by hiding posts. I’m positive others have unfriended me for one reason or another. Raises hands for when I used FB for games. :) I don’t use the personal account for business though – all that is now on the fb page.
Twitter: rtmixmktg
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Hi Sara,
Hey, we all do things on occasion that some people might consider “unfriend-worthy”. Sometimes it’s just better to be disconnected with them in the end anyway! Thanks for stopping by to add to the conversation!
Tom Treanor recently posted..The Importance of Layout in Your Marketing Materials
Twitter: liflecken
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I believe that games as well as causes post invitations for those people who join them. Someone unfriended me for not endorsing her cause. I have unfriended some males for g-hitting on me, even after telling them I was happily married.
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